I love going out to eat with my friends.  I have one question or maybe an issue I can’t decide which one it is yet.  Please help me.  When my friends and I eat together some of them order appetizers, some order adult beverages.  I usually order dessert instead.  WHY DOES THE WAITER/WAITRESS FEEL THE NEED TO BRING ENOUGH SPOONS FOR EVERYONE AT THE TABLE?  They didn’t bring me an extra glass to help them drink their wine.  Damnit, I’m not planning on sharing my dessert with everybody at the damn table! Would it be rude to tell the server to just bring ONE spoon?  Nobody is helping me pay for my dessert either.  I think before I order I should make an announcement that I will be ordering dessert and if you would like some you should order you one because I am planning on taking some home to eat later.  See that sounds better than what I really wanted to say.  You have no idea how long this have been bothering me.